A personal experience with twin pregnancy complications offered
with a twist of science and
broken down by trimesters for an easy and understandable read. Written by our friend Geodhe, M.D. and mother of
I've previously had the pleasure of writing an article on this site detailing just what it's really like to conceive twins with the aid of IVF, a.k.a the ever-detested euphemistic "unnatural" way.
In a small aside, I dub my babies pure finest Astroturf when people get a little too nosey in the supermarket in combination with the word "natural" these days.
I shall now go on to relate something of the risks and management of
twin pregnancy, partially from a medical perspective, and partially from
my own experience.
Twin pregnancies aren't easy, most of the time.
Forgive me for sounding surprisingly gloomy for such a determinedly irreverent soul, because the vast majority of twins are born at or near term with no long term complications, but it bears remembering that some are sadly not so lucky. Additionally, even relatively minor prematurity has a much bigger emotional impact that I ever though it could, until it was me tube feeding my tiny baby and crying my eyes out for three days straight because neither twin has the strength to even attempt breastfeeding and my milk failed to come in.
My breasts may have LOOKED the E-cup business, but sadly, they should have been labeled "For recreational use only". But, I'm getting ahead of the story, again.
Simply put, growing two babies at once in a space designed for only one is very, very hard work. If nothing else, it's often incredibly uncomfortable. The uterus gets much bigger than usual (for obvious reasons) measuring around term size by the early third trimester. Blood volume expands even more than in a singleton pregnancy to supply the extra baby/placenta, with uterine blood flow at only 25 weeks gestation already being equivalent to full term with a single baby and therefore your poor heart has to pump this enormous load. It's like running a race, at rest. Things are simply physically harder than singleton pregnancies, and therefore it is unsurprising that there are increased risks of complications.
The medical risks were something which I was quite aware before even
becoming pregnant, but gleefully disregarded as "Not THAT high". As many
people in am infertility/loss situation are wont to do, I glossed over
unpleasant words like "pre-term labor", "pre-eclampsia", "intrauterine
growth retardation", "steroids" and "NICU", "septic work-up", "gavage
feeding", "lumbar puncture" and the like when serenaded by the emotive
aspect of getting ANY baby at all, let alone the miracle two at once.
Im an utter eSET (elective single embryo transfer) hypocrite. I can see
why it would have been the safest thing for me to do, but I didn't do
it. Not by my third IVF, anyway.
Unfortunately, however, I personally experienced each of the not-so-nice words in quotation marks above first hand during my pregnancy. So, to recap slightly, in case I have rambled excessively in this introduction, previous to this article I had the pleasure of sharing my IVF experiences that GOT me pregnant with twins in the first place. I now plan to pick my story up from the 'got pregnant and looking like I'll stay that way' point. (see my IVF Twins article)
Please don't hit me, or to be more accurate, risk bodily harm to
yourself by thumping your computer screen repeatedly if I say that I
found the first trimester easy.
Anxiety was the only symptom I appeared to have of pregnancy, albeit unusually rabid in intensity. As soon as I knew I could see a fetal heart beat (or two!) on transabdominal ultrasound scan, I was skulking into my own radiology department and borrowing the machines for a quick self-scanned fix of "Yep Still Alive!" on at least a once a week basis. Sometimes more often.
If you've just found out you're having twins and you're reading this
with your head firmly resting over an emesis basin
(or your toilet bowl, should you actually take a PC in the loo), please
don't send me emails of hate for lacking the Spew Gene. Read on.
I thought multiple pregnancy was going to be an utter doddle. I'd be in heels still working at 38 weeks when I gently started contracting. My skin would be blemish-free. My hair would be lush. I would wear make-up every day. I wouldn't put on weight ANYWHERE apart from my beautifully un-stretch-marked belly. No twin pregnancy complications for me, no sir.
Yes, I was delusional.
My twins were DCDA, and my obstetrician discussed all of the above
items. I blithely continued to insist that I felt I would be able to
continue in my very active job until term.
No, I didn't even stay pregnant that long. My problem was that pregnancy with multiples is easy in the first trimester while they're still less than 2 inches long each (if you don't get morning sickness). It's a different kettle of fish entirely when they're over five pounds each and YOU weigh over sixty more than you started out.
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